All of us have had it happen. A normal day, going about our usual business when, like an ambush, someone unloads on us with no filter, no perspective, and no mercy.
In many cases, the recipient did nothing to deserve harsh treatment other than walk by while looking like a promising target, but […]
Entries from May 2008
A Tip for Handling Destructive Criticism: It’s Not About You
May 30th, 2008 · 3 Comments
Tags: Causes of Job Hate
13 Ways of Looking at a Blackberry
May 22nd, 2008 · 5 Comments
[Edit: Apparently, this was done in 2004 in the New Yorker. I hadn’t seen that when I wrote this, and I still haven’t seen it. At least it’s not a Ziggy cartoon…]
(This is a parody of the famous Wallace Stevens poem “Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Blackbird”)
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Among those office workers,
The […]
Tags: Causes of Job Hate · Work Humor
Discontentment With Your Job: Use It or Lose It
May 13th, 2008 · 11 Comments
There are three responses to hating a job: keep hating it, change the job, or change your attitude. I spend a lot of time focusing on the “change your job” option because I think that it is usually the best, most practical option.
That being said, stirring up discontentment and trying to draw attention to […]
Tags: Career Satisfaction
Long Overdue: What Happened, What Now, and What’s Next?
May 9th, 2008 · 10 Comments
A Bit of Background
I started this blog back in June, so we’re coming up on the anniversary of the launch. At that time, I’d just left a job that was a bad fit for me, and I wanted to do what I could to help others stuck in a similar situation find a way […]
Tags: Friends of IHYJ · Titanic Essays · This Blog