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6 Ways to Get Respect Quickly, Despite Your Youth

August 15th, 2007 · 9 Comments

Establishing Yourself As A Professional Professional

I originally published this article at Employee Evolution as a guest post a little while back. I’m sure it’ll be new to most of you though, and I think much of the advice applies to readers of all ages.

Are you interested in being seen for your contributions rather than your birth year?

These 6 tips will help you to get noticed more quickly, earn you greater influence and responsibility, and get you closer to a level playing field.

  1. Be a student of everyone: Asking questions and taking advice isn’t a sign of weakness, and it won’t emphasize your youth either. You’ll get better faster, impress more people, and actually seem older.

    Why it works: Seeking ways to improve is a sign of maturity and is the easiest way to gain the skills and knowledge that make you more effective. Plus, demonstrating a willingness to learn from your elders takes away a lot of the stereotypes and targets you will be marked with as a Millennial.

  2. Learn to write well: Develop your ability of written communication to the highest level, both in your daily emails and in deliverables for which you are responsible. This includes correct grammar, capitalization, and punctuation–even in email.

    Why it works: If you can quickly fire off sharp emails, you will come across as highly capable and intelligent (provided your content isn’t inappropriate). Not everyone types well, and certainly not everyone writes well.

    Today, many first impressions are made through email. If you present well there, you will be developing your personal brand, and when people are surprised at how young you are compared to what they expected, you will know that you’ve already broken some of their preconceptions about your generation.

  3. Demonstrate leadership: Help other employees to be more effective. For example, since you are a regular blog-reader, you probably are ahead of the curve when it comes to getting things done with computers. Be generous to help others format documents, create spreadsheets, or find information on the web. As for fellow younger workers, you’ll probably be able to answer many of their questions related to your industry and your company since you’re a student of everyone now.

    Concerning the boss, give appropriate amounts of ground-level feedback on how things can be improved if he/she is interested. Don’t suck-up, but do provide the kind of info they want to know.

    Why it works: Nothing says maturity like leadership. If you have workers of every age looking to you to be more effective, you’ll have their respect by default.

  4. Work smarter: Create templates for common tasks and send them out to others who could use them. Write scripts or stock emails for common customer interactions. If you are in sales, design a killer territory plan and use tools like Jigsaw to get better conversion rates. Employ solid time-management to get more done in less time, and so on.

    Why it works: When push comes to shove, intelligent managers will determine how to treat you based on performance alone. If you are the top producer in the department, you will usually be respected and rewarded. There aren’t many companies that don’t appreciate bottom-line results.

  5. Show up: Take advantage of opportunities to interact with upper-management. If it’s a small company, say yes when you are invited out to drinks or dinner. If it’s a larger organization, reach as high as is practical. Participate in forums, Q&As, and special project groups, and don’t be shy about introducing yourself at the proper moment. Your CEO might enjoy hearing the perspective of his tip-top inside sales representative, for example.

    Why it works: In many cases, your boss’s boss’s boss is a very cool person. We’re probably not talking about someone who got their job on the strength of tenure alone, so there’s a good chance they aren’t as limited by notions of age as some career middle managers might be. This is just an instance of going to find the people who are most likely to respect the substance of who you are.

  6. Avoid being an idiot: Subtle advice, no? Anyone who’s spent any amount of time in an office has seen talented people who can’t stop shooting themselves in the foot with stupid habits. Improper attire, showing up late, inappropriate jokes, failure to stop talking about oneself… The list goes on and on. Exercise good judgment and at least be aware of the norms in your workplace. Like with great writing, you need to prove you can follow the rules before you can get away with breaking them.

    Why it works: It’s hard to get respect when you’re fired.

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Tags: Career Advice · First Jobs · Generation Y

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9 responses so far ↓

  • 1 Naomi Dunford // Aug 15, 2007 at 11:50 am

    Hi Chuck,

    Sorry to hear you’re down with the sickness. I stumbled this post - definitely something everybody needs to know, especially young people who have grown up with instant messaging and can’t put three words together gramattically. As always, great stuff!

  • 2 Ray Dotson // Aug 15, 2007 at 3:20 pm

    I couldn’t agree more about the writing and speaking abilities. These skills actually seem to be becoming more rare the older I get, especially in technical fields. This may be why technical types seem to always hit a certain ceiling…

  • 3 Chuck Westbrook // Aug 16, 2007 at 2:06 pm

    @Naomi– Thanks for the Stumble! I know one thing, I’ve gotten so used to typing everything I write that I think I would write far less effectively with a pen or pencil now.

    I edit on the fly, write non-linearly, and I think I’ve learned to spell tactilely too… Here’s hoping that won’t come back and bite me one day.

  • 4 Chuck Westbrook // Aug 16, 2007 at 2:10 pm

    @Ray Dotson– That’s an interesting observation about hitting a ceiling due to lack of communication skills.

    If the skills are really that hard to come by these days, I imagine that developing writing and speaking abilities in a technical field results in even clearer distinction than it would for someone on another career path.

    It’s all about scarcity, after all. Thanks for the visit and for the comment!

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  • 8 Klara // Apr 3, 2008 at 9:16 pm

    Thanks, that was an interesting article. Yes, I’ve discovered that little things like writing well can help you gain a little more respect.

    In my jobs, networking, finding innovative solutions to problems, accepting responsibility and showing leadership has promoted me, both officially and unofficially many times.

    When I say unofficially, I mean that I’m treated as having authority and trusted because I’ve taken extra responsibilities willingly. There’s no immediate change in your pay packet, but plenty in how you’re treated in your office.

  • 9 Klara // Apr 3, 2008 at 9:27 pm

    I also agree with yours and Ray’s comments on writing and speaking skills. I’m in technical support, and it’s my people skills that have enabled me to succeed past these ‘ceiling’. I unofficially liaise with other departments that are limited by poor communication. I find that this networking with a wide range of people is very informative, and sometimes you can predict issues escalating.

    Good customer service or ’soft skills’ are also invaluable when dealing with people that are exasperated by technical faults. The last thing they want is to deal with a broken printer and a technician that sounds like an unsympathetic voice mail!

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